Beating the Winter Blahs

Beating the Winter Blahs

Beating the Winter Blahs

Well, it’s winter. Not a lot of news there, but then not a surprise either. When the winter comes, it’s got its own plans, and there’s not a lot we can do about it. I’ve been reading a lot this winter, since the weather is not conducive to outdoor activities. At least, that’s my opinion. So each morning my dear husband says, “Whatever you do, don’t go outside. It’s treacherous out there!” That’s my invitation to curl up with a good book.

A Merry Christmas!

A Merry Christmas!

Did you ever get started reading a specific type of book, or a certain author’s books, and wish you could put them all in your blog for the whole world to see? Of course, if I got to do that, then I’d probably get sued for plagiarism. But being down and out for the count isn’t all “doom and gloom and agony on me.” (See earlier blogs to get caught up with my falls and surgeries, etc.) Because when you’re laid up, you can always read! Yay!!!

Grand Adventures

Grand Adventures

Sometimes we enter our adventures from human error or lack of knowledge, thus it began of our own volition. Sometimes we enter on our adventures from an outside source, as when we get lost due to someone giving us the wrong directions. Sometimes, grand adventures just happen. We don’t need to try to carry guilt or blame to please someone else.

Open Mouth, Insert Foot?

Open Mouth, Insert Foot?

Sometimes I open my mouth and words somehow just come spilling out. It’s really kind of scary, in a way, because suddenly, you have put into other people’s ears your own thoughts. And sometimes you might not even know you really thought that! (Like when someone is thinking and suddenly has to ask himself, “Did I say that out loud?” If that’s not scary, then let me know, but I think it is.)

Adventuring Close at Hand

 

Adventuring Close at Hand

Sometimes the most innocent of trips develops into an adventure. I remember when we first brought our girls, Mariatu and Sia, here from Sierra Leone, West Africa, we discovered there were a couple of African stores in downtown Kansas City. That, of course, necessitated a trip or two there. So, we’d pile into my car and head for the big city. (We lived in Raymore, MO, at that time.) Prior to these jaunts, my trips to the big city usually meant to Bannister or Oak Park Malls.

This was prior to everyone carrying a cell phone, or cars equipped with GPS. I just looked it up in the phone book and off we went!  As we drove (and drove, and drove), one of the ladies would sweetly ask, “Mom, are we lost?” To which I would respond with a smile pasted on my face, “NO! WE’RE GOING ON AN ADVENTURE!!!”

Now let me digress, momentarily, to state a few facts.

1) We were originally from down in the Ozark mountains.

2) The town we lived nearest had a population of 386.

3) Despite the fact that our military travels led us to Colorado Springs, Phoenix, St. Louis, etc., I never spent a lot of time “in the city”.  

4) When girls were ready to shop for African food, I wasn’t supposed to waste time adventuring.

Back to present time.

Life is vastly different now. Everybody has a cell phone. Cars come with GPS. And I’m 20+ years older and feebler.  Now Maria has four brilliant, talented, and beautiful children (1 graduating this year), and she gets around like nobody’s business and, if she doesn’t feel like it, her husband, Jeff, can. Sia has a lively, bright, opinionated 7-year-old daughter and not much gets past either of them.  They are such free spirits that they just get up and go wherever they set their minds to go. 

I had a fun ride with Sia recently. She and Malika had come up to visit for a couple of days.  As they were preparing to leave, I rode down to the closest filling station to top off their tank and enjoyed laughing and talking with them.

All at once, history repeated itself. From the back seat, Malika asked, “Mom? Are we lost?” Sia plastered the biggest smile on her face and answered, “Are we lost? No, my dear, we’re going on an adventure!” Like mother like daughter?


Hope all your adventures are happy ones, and that you enjoy spoiling your favorite Mother in the world!

Happy Spring! And Happy Mother’s Day!